Friday, 22 September 2017

Reimagining Church


Reimagining Church




If you ever want a challenging read regarding the status quo of the church then Frank Viola is your man!  I was deeply challenged by his book Pagan Christianity and have really enjoyed Reimagining Church: Pursuing the dream of Christianity.  I do not agree with all Frank writes but I do agree that we need a paradigm shift regarding the church from institutionalism to a more organic way of being.  He helpfully describes the institutional paradigm and the organic paradigm in the table below, as you read it I wonder which you would prefer to be a part of?



Institutional Paradigm


Organic Paradigm

Sustained by clergy system
Knows nothing about a clergy system
Seeks to energise the laity
Doesn’t recognise a different class called laity
Limits many functions to the ordained
Makes all members functioning priests
Renders the bulk of its congregant’s passive in their ‘pews’
Allows and encourages all Christians to engage in whatever ministry god has called them to
Associates church with a building, a denomination, or a religious service
Affirms that people do not go to church; affirms that they (together) are the church
Is rooted in unifying those who share a special set of customs or doctrines
Is rooted in unreserved fellowship with all Christians based on Christ alone
Places its priority on programme and rituals that keep its congregants at arm’s length, insulating them from one another
Places its priorities on face to face, shared life relationships, mutual submission, openness, freedom, mutual service, and spirituality reality-the very elements that were built into the NT church
Depends on forced tithing and huge budgets
Depends on the spirit of god to bring about generous, grace based giving among members
Spends most of its resources on building expenditures and pastor-staff salaries
Spends most of its resources on ‘the poor among you’ and travelling workers who preach the gospel and plant new churches
Operates on the basis that the pastor/priest is the functional head (while Christ is the nominal head)
Operates on the basis that Christ is the functional head through the invisible guidance of the holy spirit through the believing community
Extols and protects the clergy, programme-centred system that serves as the driving machine of the organised church
Rejects the clergy system because it quenches the sovereign exercise of the Holy Spirit yet lovingly embraces every Christian within the system
Recognises and affirms hierarchical leadership
Rejects hierarchical leadership; recognises and affirms the organic leadership of the whole body
Builds programmes to fuel the church; treats people as cogs in the machine
Builds people together in Christ to provide the momentum of the church
Encourages believers to participate institutionally and hierarchically
Initiates believers to participate relationally and spiritually
Separates church (ecclesiology) from personal salvation (soteriology): views the former as a mere appendage to the latter
Forges no link between personal salvation and the church; sees the two as inextricably intertwined.  (Scripture has it that when people were saved, they simultaneously became part of the church and immediately met together[1]





I am sure there are grey areas above and I like you may have some arguments about some of the statements.  But!  I do recognise the desperate need for a paradigm shift.  I know which community I would prefer to be a part of having been shattered by institutional church with its too high expectations of leadership and programme orientated ministry.  I have been so effected by this that as I go about looking to be a part of an organic movement I go about thinking about it in an institutional way!  I have become despondent by institutional churches arms length love and unradical community.  Its time for a change.  A change to the Acts 2 model. 

However, the thing I notice most as we go about making this paradigm shift is the cost.  The cost to me of privilege, finances and status (some already made but much more to come).  And the cost to other believers (especially spectator ones) as they share much of the load that sits on the shoulders of the one or two.  But I am willing to take the cost.  The thought of a vibrant Christian community impacting its community is too much of an adventure to begin by counting the cost...

So… for now… I’m excited about organic Christianity, what about you?







                       





[1] Viola, F. (2008). Reimagining church. Pages 274-275.

Monday, 4 September 2017

We are Family


We are family



I hope that you are as guilty as me?  I have an online persona.  What do I mean by this?  Well I tend to only post online things that are positive and put me in a good light.  Take the family for instance, I tend to only post pictures of them looking cute, having adventures or doing something funny.  For those of you who do not see us regularly I could give the impression that all’s well in paradise.  I do not tend to post photos of arguments, moaning, tears and upset.  Forgive me for not being honest.  My kids are amazing.  I love them so much but please may I never give the impression that our family life is one happy moment after another.  There are at times… tensions!

A couple of years ago we went on holiday to Norfolk.  A pretty long drive from Bristol where we were living at the time.  This is a tiny segment of a four-hour journey:



Gracie:  I want the CD on
Mummy: It’s not I want, it’s I would like please
Gracie: I would like the CD on please
(Daddy changes CD)
Anna: I liked that one – put that one back on… 
Gracie: (Whilst driving past Gloucester) Are we there yet?  
Anna: I don’t want to be in the car 
Anna: (The first of 1000 rounds) I want breadstickI want raisins… I want banana, I want chocolate, I want ice cream 
Gracie: Ooh… I want an ice cream – can we have track 5 now? 
Bethany: Starts to cry 
Daddy – can you put Bethany’s MEME (Dummy) in  
Gracie: I can’t find it  
Daddy: Have you looked 
Gracie: Yes – oh wait it's there on her lap 
Anna: I want my MEME, I want breadstickI want raisins… I want banana, I want chocolate, I want ice cream 
Gracie: How long to go 
Daddy: 3 hours  (tears gathering in eyes)!
Anna: I want to hold your hand Mummy 
Ez: It’s not I want, it’s I would like please
(Ez gives hand)
Anna: (Bursts into tears and shouting) I want other hand – I want other hand… 
Ez: I can’t reach with other hand make do with that one 
Gracie: I wanted to hold your hand mummy 
Anna: I want breadstickI want raisins… I want banana, I want chocolate, I want ice cream 
(It all goes wonderfully quiet as we all like track 8 except for…) 
Anna: Don’t want Daddy to sing! 
(A bit of quiet as we pass Cheltenham)  
Anna: I want to take my clothes off  
Mummy: you can’t take your clothes off 
Daddy: (trying to make light of the situation) you want to get naked Anna yes let’s all get naked!
Gracie: I don’t want to get naked 
Anna:  Get naked Gracie –  
Gracie: No
(For next 10 mins argument about whether Gracie should be naked or not broken by...)

Gracie: Are we nearly there yet?
5 mins of a 4-hour journey!



God bought to my attention recently that when I was in my previous role as a pastor of an established Baptist church my family life and ministry had become quite separate.  This was the first role I had where Ez wasn’t also in post and now she was enjoying being ‘full time’ mum.  Most of my ‘work’ took place visiting or at the wonderful suite of buildings the church owned.  Hospitality happened when the kids were in bed.  It was not often enough my ministry and family life came together.  God had bought this to my attention whilst I get used to my new pioneering role in Dorset called missional listening.  We are very much called to do this as a family.  But when we get invited out to meet people or to share dreams I am anxious because will I be able to be a ‘professional’ minister whilst also being Dad?  Will they fall out and if brutally honest embarrass me?  Will they judge me that I cannot control my kids?  These thoughts came to a head when we were entertaining a good friend from Bristol.  We were all in the car and enjoying an episode like the one experienced going to Norfolk.  I shouted!  Yes, in front of an old church member I shouted, was cross, was annoyed and ran of patience.  I spent weeks feeling awful that this friend had seen me break the Christian perfection bubble I am guilty of sometimes trying to preserve.  Something had to give.



Whilst at New Wine this summer God reminded me not to be embarrassed, not to stop showing my vulnerabilities and that it’s okay to have chaotic children.  Even more so, to minister from there to others who I am sure are feeling and going through similar experiences (unless you are all telling the truth on Facebook) as we are.  That is authentic ministry.  Ministering out of who we are.  The good, the bad and the ugly.



So please my friends, minister out of your weaknesses, bring all you have to the table, because it is in our weakness that God makes us strong.  Let’s create a family, a community and a culture that we can be honest in, vulnerable in and by God’s grace then see healing, love, support and hope as we journey together.



I may not start posting all the difficult moments we encounter on Facebook.  Just last week, I wanted to take a photo of one of my children having a tantrum on a train so that I could write a blog on materialism!  Ez told me I had to comfort her instead!  But you are so very welcome to join us as we minister in the villages of rural Dorset.  You are welcome to join us for a meal, or to just hang out… and do church.  We are not perfect, but we are loved by God and saved by the amazing grace of Jesus Christ.  We would love you to join us as we explore what that means for us and the communities around.  May God bless you and please do not fret about weaknesses but bring them to a community where you will be loved and nurtured and on the wonderful journey to Christ likeness.  We would love to welcome you.